What other 'question' words should my toddler be using? Well, it depends very much on where you're from it would seem. As an English mummy 'Why?' is the word I expect most - probably closely followed by 'How?'. Not so in Germany it would seem.
Last week we were at the Kinderarzt for the U7a the 34-36month developmental check-up (more on 'U-Appointments') and had the usual forms to fill in on what your child can do. At the 2 and 3 year checks, this is concentrated on speech and social skills - so which words they use independently from a long list (not what they'd parrot after you) and how they interact with others / in certain situations - i.e. if a stranger approached them.
One of the speech parts of the questionnaire this time concerned what question words your three year old uses. Did they use the following words:
- Wie? - how?
- Was? - what?
- Wo? - where?
- Wohin? - where to?
So do German children not ask Why? - is it a cultural thing that they are not encouraged to question the way things are? If you ask Herr EE, from his experience in the work place he would say yes - there seems to be no questioning of 'why' things are being done just a propensity to say 'no I'm not going to do it'.....!
Is it so expected that Why? is the question word of choice that it's not even worth asking about it - I have my doubts here given the German propensity to double check everything.... their thoroughness would not allow them to miss out something so important as 'Why?' nor indeed to make the assumption that everyone uses it.
Of course, I forgot to ask the Kinderarzt why (!) it wasn't on the list - I'm certainly always querying why he does certain things - what the need for them is and I get the impression that it is not the norm among his patients - but what that is down to of course is still up for debate.
So 'Why?' Do / did your children use it incessantly, is it an Anglophone thing, or are your experiences of other cultures such that the use of 'Why?' is common to all childrens' development?